Sun-downing & Emotional Distress Support

Helping families and care teams respond to late-day anxiety, confusion, and behavioural changes.

Changes in mood, behaviour, and emotional well-being in the late afternoon and evening are common for people living with dementia. These moments can be distressing not only for the individual, but also for families and care teams who may feel unsure how to respond. Sun-downing is not simply a behaviour — it is often a form of communication that reflects underlying emotional, physical, or environmental needs.

This may present as:

  • Increased anxiety or restlessness

  • Confusion or disorientation

  • Agitation or emotional distress

  • Repetitive questioning or calling out

  • Difficulty settling in the evening

At Stay With Me Care, I provide trauma-informed support that helps families and care teams understand what is happening beneath the surface, and respond in ways that reduce distress rather than escalate it. The focus is on creating calm, supportive environments where the individual feels safe, understood, and reassured.

Support may include:

  • Understanding triggers and patterns

  • Practical strategies to reduce agitation

  • Communication approaches for families and staff

  • Environmental and routine adjustments

  • Emotional support for the individual

  • Guidance for care teams and families

With the right approach, these moments can become more manageable and less overwhelming. When we shift from reacting to behaviours to understanding their meaning, we create space for connection, calm, and reassurance.

Behaviours are not the problem , they are a form of communication.